Jomama46 said:
Religion is the great dividor.
How can one admit that the basis for all that they believe in is WRONG"
I am a Christian but not an evangelical. I am not so sure that there isn't more than one answer to the same question.
I tend to accept the Physicians oath. (also copier techs) "First do no harm"
This, in a way, goes back to what I was saying with children.. In order to be able to learn, one needs to know when one is wrong. In order to admit that one is wrong, one needs to be open-minded.
I went from catholic to taoist, and although it's a little different (from a faith to a philosophy/way of life), the simple fact that I have changed means that I just cannot tell anyone whether they're right or wrong, because I've obviously changed my mind once on what WAS right and wrong.
With my friends, we got to the conclusion that every religion is right for somebody, but not everybody is right for every religion (that's actually very taoist... lol). Every religion has at least a piece of the Truth, assuming there is such a thing, so no one is completely wrong -- but no one is completely right!
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fumei : with the "what a big load off my butt", SilentAiche was simply expressing this : he does not need anyone's approval to be OK with his system of beliefs.
We go back to what has come to this thread a few times : "I believe what I believe, you believe what you believe."
It does me no injury for my neighbor to say there are twenty gods or no God. It neither picks my pocket nor breaks my leg.
- Thomas Jefferson
That's true, isn't it?
Fumei, I agree with you on one point: many christians now feel like they have to defend their faith. That's a failing of the people who taught them, not a failing of the religion. Sadly, when one does not understand the consequences of teaching someone else, these situations can easily be reached.
Compare this to a bad martial arts teacher who will teach for several years deadly techniques to a student who has a mental unbalance and will then go and use these techniques for improper ends. It is the sensei/sifu/teacher's job to weed out, and pick and choose who can be taught what.
This actually links to what SilentAiche said: non-believers seem to know a lot more about the christian writings (which is only a part of the religion!) than some believers. Why is that? Is there a moral obligation to know as much as you can about your religion? I don't think so.. One only learns as much as one is comfortable with.
Also -- fumei :
You consider I am "wrong" in NOT believing in a deity. Well, I think you are "wrong" in believing in one.
That's interesting. SilentAiche never said you were wrong, did he? Here's another way of thinking about it.
SilentAiche thinks he is right, and you think you are right. There is no accusatory tone, no denigration. This particular truth (faith, system of beliefs, way of life, whatever) is SUBJECTIVE. Everyone has their own. And it can change (as I would be a living proof of this).
What led me to change? Well, I was a little curious when I read/heard/saw that things like adultery were punishable by death by stoning.. That homosexuality was condemned.. That masturbation was condemned.. It was an awful lot of things which, I felt, didn't really fit with today's society. What bothered me was that some people thought they should be enforced in today's society!
I have always understood the Bible to be, quite literally, "THE BOOK". It held a way of life, a set of teachings, history, beliefs, everything that you need to teach your kids how to live (there's a really long list of what to do and what not do, as I recall). However, it worked for a particular society, 2,000 years ago. Not today's society. Societies evolve.
I've considered circumcision to be the same thing : a great thing for a nomadic people who have to travel through the desert. Does anyone want to go through the pain of getting sand in there? ... And in today's society, isn't that a little bit obsolete, at least for urban folks, and when you consider today's clothing?
The impossibility for people to evolve is what turned me away. Taoism is timeless, which is what truly interested me. And the Tao Te Ching is a short read ;-)
"That time in Seattle... was a nightmare. I came out of it dead broke, without a house, without anything except a girlfriend and a knowledge of UNIX."
"Well, that's something," Avi says. "Normally those two are mutually exclusive."
-- Neal Stephenson, "Cryptonomicon"