Someone posted this earlier but I think we need to recognise that the original poster didn't indicate they where snooping and didn't ask if snooping was ok.
Someone else has mentioned that if you found this information and brought it to the attention of your friend you better be willing to bear the responcibilty of how you got the info.
If I was deliberately digging around trying to find gossip because my life is so boring then I'm probably to spineless to own up to the real way I've come across this information but as Sleipnir points out it is easy to see this information without intentionally digging for dirt.
For example I rebuilt my friends box (wiped the hard drive and reinstalled everything)
Part of this was making sure they had their email still (Outlook express). Now I'm a BA/Programmer. I'm not a tech guy but I know from doing my own system I can back up the folders reinstall and if I put the folders back properly and reset the accounts up right all the email will be there. Not 100% confident I, while they where there, logged into both their accounts in XP and opened outlook to see that they had the right email boxes (ie I didn't put my mates email folders where his wifes folders should be and vise versa.
Now it isn't really snooping when you bring that up and bam in your face is an email that is a bit suspect. The human brain is a magnificent thing and you call read a quick email without even trying to read it.
for example if you saw this in a preview pain
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Hey cute stuff,
I've booked my tickets and the hotel. I can wait until I get you alone in the spa and $#@( your .....
We need to do these "Buisness trips" more often. I can't believe Mike hasn't got suspicious. Better for us tho! :)
Love you
Joe
Your friend is Mike and this is his wife's email. Hmmmmm
All you where doing was making sure that you had his wifes folders in the right place.
I guess if you had reservations about approaching your friend you could deliberately leave the emails switched so the next time Mike logs in he sees that his wifes "Business trip" to Sydney next week will not be the business he expected it to be.
Hope I've been helpful,
Wayne Francis
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