if you've tried going to your \winnt\system32 directory and deleting dvdplay.exe (or renaming it if you think you might use it again), then then add or verify that in the registry:
HKEY_LOCAL_MACHINE\SOFTWARE\Microsoft\Windows\CurrentVersion\explorer\FileAssociation
..there is a "KillList" entry and dvdplay.exe should be in it. If it isn't, edit that line to add it in there...all lowercase, and additions must be seperated by semicolon.
Give that a shot - haven't tried it myself, but I think it just might work. Also - you can try installing a software DVD player instead, and it will associate itself.
It's the decoder that's killing you here..if your computer detects a decoder with no other program associated with it, it will place a shortcut in your startup menu to dvdplay. Make sure that's deleted as well.
? hope it works for ya.. pbxman
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