A few years ago I joined a local Council on their HelpDesk. I had just moved, was desperate for work, and knew I was too good for the position (excuse the macho self-inflation, I will pop my bubble later...).
I had been there for a few months, and more than proved my worth, when suddenly a job came up at a high admin level.
I applied, thinking I could use my current position as a lever. Everyone in the department agreed that I should get the job no problem (it's coming...)
But I didn't even get called to interview.
The reason? At the time, I didn't drive. No-one told me that until it was too late, and someone had been appointed. A woman of the same age as myself.
After a lot of asking around, it turned out that HR had excluded me from interview, even though my bosses had asked me to apply. My managers thought I hadn't applied, since they didn't get my application form from HR.
Anyway, I got my driving test, and re-applied, after the managers said that they would create a new post for me at the same level (after I complained a lot to them and HR!!!).
It turned out that the woman I ended up working with was utterly brilliant in many areas in which I lacked knowledge, and I also had useful, technical experience to share with her.
It was one of the most successful and rewarding working relationships I have had to date. Until then, I must admit, I always thought that IT was a male aptitude thing.
From my experiences I can state categorically that it isn't.
I think that any talk of "nerd-bonding", as if it only happens to others, needs to be scrutinised, in case it's actually being perpetuated from within. We may laugh at inexperience, but wait until you (male) meet a female with more experience than yourself.
It's the community that tends to have a strong male streak, not the work. I put this down to the large numbers of males already in the arena, not that IT is essentially a man thing - how so? It shouldn't be exclusive, because, in my experience, women can and do make an important contribution to any IT department - in any role.
