brontosaurus,
I have done all the "anti-relay-fixes" suggested by quell. The only thing I am wondering, is, How long do I wait until these <> messages dissapear fom the outbound queue (after I started my Internet Mail Service again)? The last time I left I turned Internet Mail Service on, it backed up until there were approx 44,000 messages, and I had an error message stating that the outbound queue had reached it's maximum limit. Then I stopped the service, and deleted all of those outbound messages from the imcdata\out directory, so as -to also save space on the hard drive. When I turned the service back on, All the messages have returned, and I am concerned that it will back up in the outbound queue again - and possible DoS the system by filling the hard drive up. Any comments, if this is normal (ie, deleting all the messages, and then they all return again)?
Also, should I leave the Internet Mail Service on, until the messages finally dissapear? I don't even know if they eventually will dissapear. I have heard that the default is 48 hours. Maybe there is a setting to turn that down...
Thanks to all the insight from everyone above. This thread has confirmed a lot of my personal research thus far into the problem.