victorgo:
The NIC should resync within 1 minute - are you waiting long enough before you reboot?
When you pull the network connection, a message should be displayed on the console that the connection is broken; when you plug back in to the network, the console informs that network conectivity has been reestablished - yes?
One of the network guys says that there is something called "spanning tree" on the network switch - takes about 50 seconds to reconnect network devices.
I think that you should check out the network switch - I think that your Ultra 60 NIC is OK - I have never, in 7 years, had a bad network card from Sun. I am sure that it happens, but i would go after the 3Comm first. Al