My first question is WHY?
In answering that question, it may be possible to find other avenues of connecting them (e.g. NIC to NIC).
At any rate, if you must go serial, you can do a variety of things. The easiest thing that comes to mind is running PPPD on one and using the PPP client on the other... that way you get some sort of TCP/IP connectivety.
I'm assuming you're doing this straight through the serial ports with one cable, correct?
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