Grimwaldi,
Comming from a Clipper (xBase) background, like you do, I happily picked up, and cross-used, Delphi from version 1 and never even though longer than 1 minute to switch to something unreadable as C or C++ ;-)
I even created a tool to open a Word document from a Clipper app, and return to the DOS-box afterward ;-)
Your 'Foxy' background should give you a headstart, as Delphi is Object Pascal and Pascal was originally designed for teaching people to write computer programs in the first place, and Foxpro is, like any other xBase, a function oriented programming environment.
Want my advice? Go for Delphi, 100 %.
Yes, I know of 1 'drawback' hurdle I had to pass, and that's databases, but if you grab something better than the included BDE (Borland Database Engine), like MySQL or some other SQL based or ODBC database, you almost can't go wrong.
Another big plus: Need a component? (aka Function) Free, shareware or commercial? I estimate that there are at least 1 million separate components available and about 30% with sourcecode included s-) Happy programmin'
The C++ guru's are probably trying to convince you to go 'their way', but then you really must like 'buying wheels, a frame, steer and sadle to build you a nice bike' instead of putting 'a bike with an 18 speed gearbox on the push of only 1 button' in your applications, you only have to select the color, but that's the hard part ;-)
Yes, I'm also pulling you over, but into the Delphi camp ;-)
HTH,
TonHu