Hi all,
I hope someone can help me out with something...
I had a discussion today with a subordinate who has recently started managing people for the first time. Things are going ok, but some problems are surfacing.
In discussing these problems with him, I think one of his problems is that he gets 'too close' to his subordinates. By that, I mean that he turns subordinates into his 'buddies'.
Now... I am all for employees enjoying their day and having some social fun, but... I am also of the opinion that to be a successful manager, the manager needs to put a bit of distance between themselves and their employees. One day he might need to let one or more of his team go, he might need to push his team to deliver something to a very tight deadline, or make a significant increase in productivity etc. So my main reason being that subordinates need to take their bosses seriously, or put another way, managers need to command some respect.
In looking though every management book I have, I cannot find one single reference to the 'correct' relationship a manager should have with their subordinates. I would like to find something that recommends that managers do not get too close to subordinates, but I am also open to the possibility that my opinion on this matter may be wrong.
Can anyone give me any pointers? A particular book or web page perhaps?
I hope someone can help me out with something...
I had a discussion today with a subordinate who has recently started managing people for the first time. Things are going ok, but some problems are surfacing.
In discussing these problems with him, I think one of his problems is that he gets 'too close' to his subordinates. By that, I mean that he turns subordinates into his 'buddies'.
Now... I am all for employees enjoying their day and having some social fun, but... I am also of the opinion that to be a successful manager, the manager needs to put a bit of distance between themselves and their employees. One day he might need to let one or more of his team go, he might need to push his team to deliver something to a very tight deadline, or make a significant increase in productivity etc. So my main reason being that subordinates need to take their bosses seriously, or put another way, managers need to command some respect.
In looking though every management book I have, I cannot find one single reference to the 'correct' relationship a manager should have with their subordinates. I would like to find something that recommends that managers do not get too close to subordinates, but I am also open to the possibility that my opinion on this matter may be wrong.
Can anyone give me any pointers? A particular book or web page perhaps?