mckmarg,
To be perfectly honest, you may find yourself a little disappointed. Databases are inherently difficult, for unlike other software, you can't simply begin typing and create something.
With a word-processor, you can fire it up and type up a letter. You don't need to learn things until you need them. With databases, though, you need to create your tables before you can type data into them. It's a bit like the chicken and egg thing.
Paradox is quite powerful, but it's designed around a bare-bones sort of approach. You can do many things manually, but you need to learn a set of skills before you can actually do them. For example, you need to learn how to create tables before you can actually use them.
On ething that does set Paradox apart is its programming language. Once you learn each set of skills, you can tie them together in precisely the right combination of steps that you need to perform for your work. With other packages, you need to learn how they want you to perform your work.
Paradox honestly has a reputation for being hard to learn. This isn't quite true, but it is true that there are lots of things you need to figure out to accomplish what might seem to be fairly straightforward tasks. In fact, there's a reason for this and that's flexibility.
Instead of being given a kit of pre-built solutions, Paradox gives you the tools to make the best solution for your needs.
One other thing separates Paradox fro other packages and that's the community of people that use it. You can get a lot of free help by posting messages in various places. And frequently, this help is far superior to what you'd get by calling technical support.
The best advice I can offer is that you take things a step at a time. Go through the tutorials and see what's available out of the box. When you get stuck, post a message asking for clarification.
I've been involved in the Paradox community for more than ten years now and that's the best way to learn the product. It may take a while, but you will eventually see that the power of Paradox lies not in a fancy UI, but in providing a reasonably complete kit of building database applications.
As long as you keep that in mind--and try to understand why things seem difficult at times, you shouldn't have too many troubles.
Hope this helps...
-- Lance