Hey Farley
Still fussin 'n figtin, eh? OK my problem is solved ( seems there is a changing list of kernel options that can be appended or must be appended regarding ide devices when you have more than four.... another thread, but I'm cool now ) so I can help you if someone else hasn't already. I'm sure though that before anyone can help to any deep degree they're going to need to know a little more info on your system and problem.
For example where did you get that designation "other=/dev/hda1"? Did you read it somewhere or did Lilo find WinXP at that location and have trouble booting it for some reason? Is WinXP installed yet? If so, it defaults to the first drive, first active primary partition which is usually /dev/hda1, but not always ( depends on if you have one big partition or many, or if you choose other than default ). It's hard to know what to tell you when it's hard to tell how far along you are in getting your 2 systems installed.
If it were mine I'd install XP first ( if at all <G> ) and then after it was in and working, install Linux using either Lilo or Grub to boot both. Since I have PQMagic, a superior partitioning tool, I happen to use it's BootMagic bootmanager which reminds me a lot of "XosL" a free or shareware ( I forget ) excellent bootloader ( you can google for it if you like ) but in my case I choose for the main bootloader to point to either Lilo or Grub so I can boot any of 5 OSs from any of each OSs own bootloader. This may sound complicated, but the advantage is in a kind of cross-coupling. I can maintain and/or recover from any OS. But, assuming you intend to keep it basic, just install XP as it wants, saving at least 4Gigs of space for Linux ( ideally, 100-200MB linux swap partition and remaining as ext2 root partition ) and install Lilo or Grub to your MBR. If that fails, install Lilo to your root partition and call it from another bootloader. If you know how to edit "ntldr" you can do it right in XP. Otherwise you may have to use an additional bootmanager such as XosL, BootMagic, PQBoot, etc etc.
Sorry if this is off track, but it was hard to know exactly what your question meant with so little info.
Jimmy