Well-our experiment wasn't successful, but I got to looking at the client configuration and may have discovered a problem that the software can't solve.
My home network (the client) consists of a cable modem, then a router, then another router (wireless). So I'm receiving through 2 NAT negotiations. In the software, it asks for the virtual adapter--and that defaults to the wireless, since my computer can't see the other router. So I'm going to reconnect to the first router and see if that does the job. Am I on the right track here?
It still doesn't explain why I can connect, however. If this doesn't do the job, I'm going to be forced to give up on it, I think.
In response to your last post--I always run anti-virus software, firewalled or not. I don't think I need a firewall on a home network, but in an office where I have 3 people who are absolutely computer oblivious, it's good to have a firewall to limit the damage that they do by downloading things they shouldn't.