I concur! Data Mining is NOT just MIS reporting. Far from it.
As we use it, Data Mining is more about finding metrics and important indicators in your data that you weren't previously aware of. Even predicting future events. MIS Reporting is about tracking indicators and metrics you are already aware of (reporting the past). The mining is often done using AI tools such as neural networks and decision trees to make very complex pictures of corelated factors in your data.
As an example, say you are in a service industry and you want to keep customers from leaving and going to a competitor. One way to keep customers is to offer incentives to stay. It's too expensive to offer incentives to every customer, so you would like a way to predict which of your current customers may be about to leave. This is where the mining comes in. Take as much information as you can possibly find about customers that have left you already. Information such as their usage, past bills, reason for leaving, demographics (zip code, income, nationality, age, shoe size, dependents, etc), everything you can get. Feed these customers who have left to a neural network to train it. At this point you have just trained the neural network to be able to identify a customer that's likely to leave. You then feed your whole current customer base to the neural net to rate your customers as to how likely they are to be disgruntled and want to leave. You then proactively offer incentives to the customers getting the highest disgruntled rating to make them "happier" before they decide to go to your competitor. It's not perfect, you may give incentives to some happy customers, but you will also give incentives to many unhappy customers. Hopefully, you lose fewer customers and have minimized the expense doing it.
This is just one example of Data Mining, there are many other things that can be done that fall under that category. But in general, it's an attempt to have your data tell you things about the business you weren't aware of, where MIS Reporting is telling you things about your business you ARE already aware of.
There are a lot of Data Mining software vendors out there. Visiting their sites can give you many more examples and ideas.
Hope this helps.