I really hate 4 line phone sets, Customers love them 'cause they are less expensive (CHEEP) than a phone system but from a tech side they are tough to troubleshoot.
I look at this as there are three possible problems with crosstalk Outside wiring (telco's problem), Inside wiring (your problem), or telephone set. and I go about troubleshooting this with easiest resolution first: find out from customers what lines are experienceing crosstalk and then listen with butt set on one line and put your toner on the other line, If you hear the tone then you can at lest verify that the customer has not lost their mind. next I isolate the line that has the toner from the telco (pull the cross connect to the telco. and see if the problem is inside or outside. If inside then disconnect EVERY telephone by pulling the wall cord at the telephone, listen with Butt set on the one line and put tone on the other line and see if you hear the cross talk. If no cross talk then add one phone at a time until you hear cross talk and isolate bad phones as you go. if there was cross talk then you get to pull all of the cross connects and add them in one at a time until you find out which cross connect/house cable is giving you the problem.
Now since I see you can't do this yourself and the customer probably has no equipment to test with you can't go with my preferred method. First thing is identify what lines are actually cross-talking and if there are only two you can swap a suspected bad line with a known good line at the demark and see if the problem moves by this I mean if lines 1 and 2 are cross-talking then swap lines 2 and 3 at the demark and see if the cross talk moves (from the customers point of view) from line 2 to line 3, if it does the problem is outside. If not you can have the customer unplug all but two phones and see if they are getting the crosstalk on them. If they are then try two other phones to verify that the problem is not the first phones you tried. If it dosen't matter what phones are plugged in and you still have the crosstalk then you probably have a problem within the house cabling (other possiblilty is that all phones are flaky) as far as isolating a crosstalk on house cabale you end up pulling either all legs off at once and putting them on one at a time or pulling one leg off at a time until you isolate since you are looking at doing this in SC while you are in TX I would just suggest calling in a tech, it will save you tons of time and would have saved me a bunch of typing.
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JerryReeve
Communications Systems Int'l
com-sys.com