addlistitem(1,1,1)
addlistitem("Self",1,2)
addlistitem(2,2,1)
addlistitem("Spouse",2,2)
addlistitem(3,3,1)
addlistitem("Child",3,2)
addlistitem(4,4,1)
addlistitem("Other",4,2)
set the BoundColumn to 1 if you want to return 1
set the BoundColumn to 2 if...