Pete,
I addressed the original question and offered two different ways of looking at that question, each of which suggested an explanation that wasn't simply grousing about a manager (or the manager's manager, or the company as a whole).
So, as far as power differential, I figured that was obvious, but I guess not. If I thrash on my boss, my boss can fire me. If my boss thrashes on me, I cannot fire him (oh, I know it's not quite as simple as all that, but I'm comfortable being cute and fluffy for illustrative purposes). I can quit, of course, which is my exercise of a different kind of power, but I clearly do not have the same position as my boss. I cannot lay my boss off. I cannot chip at my boss when he arrives ten minutes late. I cannot glower at my boss and have him spend the next four hours wondering when I'll drop whatever bomb's on my mind in his lap.
On the other hand, if I chip at my boss and he overhears it, he cannot sue me as readily as if our positions were reversed. If I make a sexist comment in the presence of my boss and it offends him, he can do a bunch of things up to and including canning my tuckus. However, if my boss makes a similar comment, the entire company is vulnerable to a lawsuit from me. This is well-established harrassment law and it exists this way solely because of the massive potential for abuse of power (how antiquated and unnecessary we might think of labor unions and labor law until we lose our weekends and other legal protections secured by the application of those laws...
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). One of the first things I learned when I was being formally trained as a manager was to recognize the
huge difference and how important it was personally and professionally to realize that I wasn't just "one of the guys" any more, nor could I be without potentially endangering the company.
But, I digress.
My point is that -- unless I am sorely mistaken -- there is
no level of a company/organization that does not hold those above and below it in a position of some sort of contempt! The closer the level, the more specific the grievance.
I'm not saying IT isn't chock-full of incompetent people, I'm just suggesting that it probably isn't as, um,
stratified as people might perceive.
If I believe those I manage are incompetent, it is almost certainly because I have not sufficiently engaged them in what it is we're trying to accomplish such that they see themselves as the same kind of vital function as I see them. If I believe those who manage me are incompetent, it is almost certainly because I have not sufficiently engaged my supervisor to understand exactly what role they expect of me to accomplish the task at hand.
This I get from years of watching Superfriends as a kid...
Cheers,
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Edward
"Cut a hole in the door. Hang a flap. Criminy, why didn't I think of this earlier?!" -- inventor of the cat door