S8300C w/Co res SES and Asterisk as a SIP provider

[victor5908]

Ok-so I am brand new to the whole SIP trunking concept although I have connected a SIP Turret system from Speakerbus to my Lab system here in NYC.
I had no issues with the Speakerbus product and everything worked fine.

I am now trying to connect a SIP trunk to a 3rd party SIP provider who is offering us test trunks.

Said test trunks worked no problem inbound and outbound with an IP Office.

I have followed the application note for CM to Asterisk and I definitely have a connection-just no calls passing through.

The provider can see my call coming in,sending him an invite,and then the call dies.
He of course doesn't think it is his programming,although he refuses to program my domain info on his end.

I am attaching a trace to see if anyone out there has had a similar situatuion or knows how to read these traces better than I do.

On the CM end after a few seconds I get a 1191 "network failure" when I do a trace.
I have programmed my Codec to accept G.729AB,G.729 and G.711.
64.58.241.163 is his public IP.
I am calling from extension 2001.

Here is the SIP log-

Apr 24 16:07:45 2009 matching filter label <iD808>: RFA_NY_1.shire.rfanyc.com: [Send Request ]
{connection: host=64.58.241.163 port=5060 protocol=UDP}
INVITE sipuser)@64.58.241.163:5060;lr SIP/2.0
Accept-Language: en
Call-ID: 014bbdad734de15e149f9daab00
CSeq: 1 INVITE
From: "Sally Lab Phone" <sip:2122202001@rfanyc.com:6001>;tag=014bbdad734de15d149f9daab00
Record-Route: <sip:10.69.62.10:5060;lr>,<sip:10.69.62.10:6001;lr;transport=tls>
To: "14123073600" <sip:14123073600@rfanyc.com>
Via: SIP/2.0/UDP 10.69.62.10:5060;branch=z9hG4bK03030313131343434349ff.0,SIP/2.0/TLS 10.69.62.10:6001;psrrposn=2;received=10.69.62.10;branch=z9hG4bK014bbdad734de15f149f9daab00
Content-Length: 187
Content-Type: application/sdp
Contact: "Sally Lab Phone" <sip:2122202001@10.69.62.10:6001;transport=tls>
Max-Forwards: 69
User-Agent: Avaya CM/R015x.01.1.415.1
Allow: INVITE,CANCEL,BYE,ACK,PRACK,SUBSCRIBE,NOTIFY,REFER,OPTIONS,INFO,PUBLISH
Supported: 100rel,timer,replaces,join,histinfo
Alert-Info: <cid:internal@rfanyc.com>;avaya-cm-alert-type=internal
Min-SE: 1200
Session-Expires: 1200;refresher=uac
P-Asserted-Identity: "Sally Lab Phone" <sip:2122202001@rfanyc.com:6001>
History-Info: <sip:14123073600@rfanyc.com>;index=1,"14123073600" <sip:14123073600@rfanyc.com>;index=1.1

v=0
o=- 1 1 IN IP4 10.69.62.10
s=-
c=IN IP4 10.69.62.20
b=AS:64
t=0 0
m=audio 2054 RTP/AVP 0 18 127
a=rtpmap:0 PCMU/8000
a=rtpmap:18 G729/8000