Thanks, geirendre
I noticed that I had edited that file and set the default to windows but it had not taken effect. It was the, Run the command lilo to update with new settings. that's what I was looking for. Thanks for the locate command couldn't remember it. Suppose thats what happens when you don't work with linux for a year. Although I run basic commands here at work but they all documented, nothing to remember, and the rest is done through webmin.
By the way if I stumble across this with grub, is there a command that needs to be run to update it?
One last thing at work to edit files pico is installed I used vi to edit the lilo file, how would I install pico?