To be honest I'm not sure how they're doing it, except they have their own core routers and backbone, the adsl is only for last mile access to the cust prem. Those core routers are linked to the internet, so I can surf across these connections if I wanted to (which I don't), but as long as the traffic is going between two adsl circuits that are both provided by this same provider they assure me it stays on their network which can prioritise voice.
Peter