Glen,
MS is actually selling a ton of wireless routers and adapters. To me, at the moment, for a router you buy nothing other than a Linksys WRT54/GS, and use third-party firmware. See the active discussion in the Linksys Forum here: forum916
And in particular the links for the WRT54G.
For adapters, I think the safest would be to use anything Broadcom chipset based at the moment; and by the end of the year something chipset based by Aetheros.
There are excellent PCMCIA adapters, particularly if the antennas are oriented on the router for their Horizontal-plane pickup; but PCI adapeters for wireless have been very disappointing (my opinion); Linksys just introduced (in Europe, not the USA) a revision for their WMP54G adapter and /GS adapter. Expect it soon.
But to put a PCI adapter behind a reflective, huge, and "noisy" backplane of a personal computer strikes me as silly. In most cases other peripheral connections will make it difficult to orient the antenna for best reception.
Antenna location should be movable. USB adapters for wireless allow this. Think the early days of TV for a guess as to how a small movement in the antenna location can get you from no-signal to excellent signal. There is to much multi-path not to be able to move the antenna base ground device itself, and the antenna ear(s) for best reception, to restrict yourself to a PCI installation.
My opinion.
Bill