You might want to try a query that searches only on differences on one field (if that is possible). If that is the case, the following sample query might speed things up:
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SELECT tblA.NameA
FROM tblA
WHERE not exists (select tblB.NameB from tblB where tblA.NameA = tblB.NameB)=true;
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Otherwise, a non-Access solution would be to copy the two tables into text files and use a text comparison utility, such as Beyond Compare, to display the differences.
hth,
GGleason