I would check that it is really tar that is running. You may have a rogue program on your hands.
It is quite easy for a program to change it's name as far as what you see in ps. That makes it easy for a malicious program to avoid detection because it looks like a regular system command. See what files the program has open (lsof is invaluable here). This may give you a clue as to who ran it (i.e. what is the cwd). You can also write a wrapper script for tar that records the command line parms, start time, cwd, terminal, etc that then calls the real tar binary.