JurkMonkey,
Narzul simply asked how to select an item programmatically in a listview, how do you know he wants to do this from another form? He never mentions that anywhere in his post, and also, I don't believe there is an issue with losing focus on the control... the form maybe. I think your method would be needed if you wanted to do this without having focus on the form, I'm not sure. I suppose if you had a reference to that control, the Select() would still work, I have not tried that myself. Anyways, I thought that I'd throw that out there in case he hadn't thought of that. It's a much easier way to select an item in a listview if you are on the same form. Perhaps I could refrain from using "the right way" in future posts, as we all know there are many many ways to do the same thing.
I see you on here a lot, and you are one the better programmers, and your help is always most appreciated.