We've always had a policy of hiring "professionals" to terminate our FO cables. They will put a device on the fiber to measure transmission loss. I've seen one of these guys re-terminiate the ends of a cable run 5 times before he was satisfied with the results (turned out to be a batch of bad epoxy). Once they are properly terminated, you should make certain that the terminations (ends) stay covered until you put them in use. Using MikeS' example, dust can cause paint damage on a car's shine can also damage the FO's terminations.
The ony other problems we've had with FO is mishandling and cutting. FO is spun glass similar to fiber glass. Like you've said, they can't take sharp jerks or creases in them like wire can. You usually get these when you install it. Again a "professional" can help as can the type of jacket around the FO cable. After they've been installed, pretty much the only thing you have to worry about is someone cutting them, e.g., backhoes, welding equipment, saws, anything workpeople will use to "repair" wherever you;ve run your cables. But the same is true for copper cables.
Oh, and FO won't rust. Some friendly advice, match the cable jacket to where you are going to put FO. If you are going to run the FO in the ground, don't use the same jacket that you would through the walls. If the FO has to support it's own weight, for example, going from one pole to another pole in the air, you've need a jacket that has a supporting metal cable though it.
We've used FO in our mill and between our building for over 10 years now. They've lasted better than the phone lines have. With a careful look at what type you need for your situation and proper installation, FO will last years.
Sorry, I didn't mean to go on so long. ;-)
James P. Cottingham
I am the Unknown lead by the Unknowing.
I have done so much with so little
for so long that I am now qualified
to do anything with nothing.