The DNS 'A' test runs fine for mail.rockwithme.org (that is my actual domain, no hiding here!) but for the 'MX' test it fails. However when I try to send myself a test email it says "searching for MX record - got it!" and it says my server responds ok. I ran those tests from a remote location - I can terminal server into a one of the servers at work and do it and thats what I did. But here is an interesting note: I have "Can't do setuid" in my /var/log/qmail/smtpd/current logs and its right after it gets an incoming connection from hotmail and yahoo.
Here is tcp.smtp
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127.:allow,RELAYCLIENT="",QS_SPAMASSASSIN="yes",QMAILQUEUE="/var/qmail/bin/qmail-scanner-queue"
:allow,QS_SPAMASSASSIN="yes",QMAILQUEUE="/var/qmail/bin/qmail-scanner-queue"
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Also, I was able to send and receive email just fine from anywhere to anywhere before I installed spamassassin and clamav/qmail-scanner. So in my *assumption* I should be set up properly for receiving external mail.
Here is smtpd/current for dnsstuff test
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tcpserver: status: 0/20
@40000000421769fc05b74b84 tcpserver: status: 1/20
@40000000421769fc05b766dc tcpserver: pid 6806 from 69.2.200.182
@40000000421769fc072070a4 tcpserver: ok 6806
test.dnsstuff.com:69.2.200.182::4363
@40000000421769fc1d2668f4 tcpserver: end 6806 status 0
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Here's whats in there this morning from hotmail
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@4000000042176be10c1c4204 tcpserver: ok 6937
bay102-f21.bay102.hotmail.com:64.4.61.31::8870
@4000000042176be1289fcd9c Can't do setuid
@4000000042176be137544c8c tcpserver: end 6937 status 0
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Thanks for your help thedaver!!!!!!