DROP DOWN MENU

[ADEMAR]

I have a drop down menu in my code. After you select an option it takes you their on the click. Problem is if the first option is already highlighted you won't be able to choose that one because in the code its waiting for an "onchange" command. Anyhow how can I make the first option always be highlighted all the time. I could use that as a title for the list. Is this possible or what other commands could I use besides "onClick" or "onchange"

Thanks,
Adam