???? Yes there is a very easy way to make flash interact with your DB!!!
The steps are extremely simple, your asp produces a page as normal but either formatted as XML or URLEncoded text in the name/value pairs of a querystring!
You then use the getVariables or getURL command within flash to retrieve these variables, they are then referenced within flash via the same variable name used within the ASP:
If you have a ASP page that produces something like name1=Chris&surname1=Jones&name2=Sarah& ..... then you would reference them within flash in the same way name1, surname1, etc..
If you really want to be clever about it then create a parser within flash that loops dependant on a variable passed from the ASP page (ie numItems=???) and plants the data into a n-dimensional array within the flash, packaging it nicely up
The itemNum *should* be the final variable passed and is useful for many reason.
1) signifies EOF
2) can error check against this within flash to see if all date retrieved
3) Is the number of times the parser has to loop remembering that flash arrays handle in a very similar way to javascript arrays!!!
Once you have all your info packaged up it is simply a programmatic thing to manipulate it.
Childs play!

Need any further help with this, drop me an email and I will send you some source files