Since I'm not sure exactly what you need done, I will use an example of something that I do on one of my sites. I have a page that will lookup a user in the database by their first or last name or part or combination of the named. Then it will display their address, phone numbers, and email addresses...basically a quick reference for other users on the site. I make it so each person keeps track of their own info, so they can add, edit, or delete any given phone number, or email address, etc. Here's how you would do it...
---first.asp------------------------
====================================
<%
dim sql
sql = "SELECT tbl_phone.phonePK, tbl_phone.userFK, tbl_phone.phoneNumber, tbl_phone.phoneType FROM tbl_phone WHERE ((tbl_phone.userFK)=" & session("userPK"

& "

;"
' Where session("userPK"

was set when the user signed
' into the site, and it took the primary key from the
' user list, and it requesting all the phone numbers
' with a match from the primary key to the foreign
' key on he phone list.
Set conn = server.createObject("ADODB.Connection"

DSNtemp = "odbcConn"
conn.Open DSNtemp
Set rs = server.createObject("ADODB.Recordset"

rs.Open sql, conn, 3, 3
response.write("<form method='post' action='second.asp'>"

Do while not rs.eof
response.write("<input type='radio' name='deleteRecord' value='" & rs("phonePK"

& "'>Delete: " & rs("phoneNumber"

& " " & rs("phoneType"

& " <BR>"

rs.movenext
loop
response.write("<input type='submit' value='Submit'><input type='reset' value='Reset'>"

response.write("</form>"
conn.Close
Set conn = nothing
%>
---second.asp------------------------
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<%
dim deleteRecord, sql
deleteRecord = request.form("deleteRecord"

sql = "DELETE * FROM tbl_phone WHERE ((tbl_phone.phonePK)=" & deleteRecord & "

;"
Set conn = server.createObject("ADODB.Connection"

DSNtemp = "odbcConn"
conn.Open DSNtemp
Set rs = server.createObject("ADODB.Recordset"

rs.Open sql, conn, 3, 3
conn.Close
Set conn = nothing
response.redirect("first.asp"
%>
Hope this helps!
-Ovatvvon