I was able to import a different cursor to fix this problem in Dreamweaver, but I can't seem to fix it in Photoshop. I selected a new cursor for the cross-hair setting in the control panel but that particular cursor doesn't seem to show up in Photoshop for some reason... I just get the normal black cross-hair.
Thanks for the suggestion viol8tion... worked great in DW, but not in PS for some reason.
Dave