Correct,Desn, whatever,
This is a recurring Access issue--due to the object-oriented-ness of it all, the continuous forms propogate the same object (textboxes, etc) for each row, whereas in Excel, each cell is it's own object--each way having it's own advantages /disadvantages.
There are numerous 'workarounds' out there, I've tried ones such Lozeres' and they work, but the downside being: how do you edit the data?
More useable solutions are far more complex, involving API calls to fill fields, etc, and that's just too much trouble for my taste. Third party grids usable in vb can do alot more than the subforms from a cell-by-cell design-property standpoint, but I don't believe they're portable to Access.
If a 'color cue' is all you need, why not use a dummy field in the table? It's blank normally, but if the date or number or whatever is at the threshold where you want to alert the user it has, say some value, say '1' or 'x', then the subform control uses symbol or marlett or other symbol-type font, with say, red color. Update the field on AfterUpdate of the dependant field. It's very simple and it 'works good enough' for most purposes.
--Jim