can not connect to remort mysql

[bhavin12300]

hi
i got my database on remote server

and following are the details


username: bhapit_database
password: **********8
database name: bhapit_database
database host: mysql3.freehostia.com
database port: 3306


i wanted to connect to database .i tired but giving me following error as i type this command

mysql -h mysql3.freehostia.com -P 3306 -user=bhapit_database -password=*********

and i got his error
ERROR 2003<HY000>:Can't connect to MySQL server on 'mysql3.freehostia.com' <10060>


please tell me how to connect to this remot server
waiting
is their another way