Edward, thanks for posting. I have a couple of questions...
I'm not sure what you mean by "the page address" when you say this is the first thing hit by the TAB key.
Also, I have a text box that has focus, but there is always one button that has a darker border that indicates it as the default. That is what I'm hoping to change... either have a different button be the default or not have the darker border around any of them.
Sorry I'm not completely understanding what you're telling me.