Freestone,
you are right in the BIOS options and not working in my environment.(too many drives)
Boot-US I had no luck with that piece of software. it is a one month limited software and the eval has lots of handicaps. I have tested the full version and the demo and was not impressed.
you really need to do your research on boot managers and ask in a forum like this for the opinion of others and their experiences on this type of software.
you could lose your boot sector and maybe even the partitions your XP is located on (both disks)with software that you have not researched as to whether is safe or not for your system.
At least XOSL is FREE and does what I want. though you do need to read the help files before you start. I also use Partition Magic 8 to create a fat32 53meg primary partition at the end of one of the hard drives. I also make that partition a bootable DOS partiton. I then load it up with recovery software, Boot software, and the XOSL install. that has saved my bacon a couple of times.(make sure you also install a NTFS reader for DOS)
I also install the DOS version of partition magic.
I would not recommend a BIOS flash unless the USER was experienced and it fixed a specific issue. if you do flash your BIOS plug the computer into a UPS (battery Backup) before you do this. if the power hickups or goes out in the middle of the process it will kill the motherboard. I had a customer with this issue (what bad luck)
IF you have XP install or are using NTFS file system...DO NOT USE "FDISK" you will lose your data on the drive. I personally do not recommend using it at all.
HenryAnthony,
First and foremost you need to read about active partitions and the Hard drive structure and how is works with your OS
these links may help though they do refer to older OS's:
good luck